Reasons why I believe baby sign language is magical!

REASON 1: Baby signing gives you the gift of communication

I’ll start with the main reason baby sign language is so fantastic. It gives you the gift of communication with your little one before they can actually talk. No surprise there right? This benefit is probably listed on every baby signing site out there – babies have control of their hands and can sign before they master the use of their voices. However, you don’t know how magical it is until you see it in action with your own child. Whether it is the first Moretime they sign “more” and you say “you want more?” and their eyes light up because they realize that you understood them. Or later, when they are a toddler and you are trying to understand what they are saying because so many words sound the same when they are learning to talk. My daughter is 20 months old right now and “Daddy”, “Kitty” and “Birdy” all sound the same. When she realizes I am not understanding her verbal words she gives me a quick sign and I say “oh, you want kitty” and she exclaims “yeah!” like thank goodness you finally understand me mom. Tantrum averted thanks to her signs – magic!

REASON 2: Baby signing helps make you be more present

Baby sign language can make you more present and aware as a parent, it can magically transport you into your baby’s world. With all three of my kids I would be walking down the sidewalk in my own head while pushing the stroller. All of a sudden I would see a hand flailing in the stroller and baby patting their leg frantically. I look at across at the other sidewalk and there is a dog. I didn’t notice the dog across the street, and I certainly wouldn’t have known that my one year old could see the dog way over there, but all of a sudden I am brought back to the moment and I strike up a conversation about the dog. “Oh, I see the puppy too” “Nice puppy” “That is a white dog?” and what do I get back from the stroller? Squeals of delight because we are communicating. Once baby knows you are listening you will be amazed what they want to tell you about their world.

REASON 3: Baby sign language allows them to tell you when they need to use the potty!

Once baby knows you are listening and that you can understand them do you know what they might want to tell you? That they have to use the potty! That is right, how magical is it to have a way for baby to tell you that they have to use the potty. Even if they aren’t consistent at first, every time they tell you they need to go is one less messy diaper that you will have to change. I feel like baby sign language has saved us a fortune on laundry during our cloth diaper phase and money on diapers during our disposable diaper phase. With all three of my kids, their ability to tell me when they need to use the potty when they were under two years old (and even under one) wasn’t perfect, but it sure was awesome every time they used the potty instead of going in their diaper. Because they were so comfortable with the potty and were already good at listening to their body, it made potty training much easier

REASON 4: Baby signing can make you stop to smell the roses, literally

Last summer when my daughter was just over a year old she made us stop and smell the flowers ALL THE TIME! She could spot flowers anywhere, whether we were walking with her in the stroller, wearing her in my baby carrier at the local Safeway for groceries or even buckling her into her car seat in a random parking lot. She would start signing “flower” and I would melt, no matter what we were doing I would stop and take the time to walk over to IMG_5604the flowers to let her touch them or smell them. It always brought a smile to my face and to anyone around. She still appreciates flowers today and I will be sad if she loses her love of flowers, but I know that I will always remember to stop and appreciate them the way she had trained me to. The magic here, isn’t necessarily the flowers, it is the memories that you will make and cherish forever.

REASON 5: Baby sign language is the gift that keeps giving – you don’t have to stop signing once they can talk!

My boys are 5 & 7 years old now and although they can talk clearly there are times when
they still sign. This first example is my favourite, we sign “I love you” in our house multiple times a day. Whether it is a quick flash of the sign across the room, or as part of wIMG_0004aving good-bye, the “I love you” sign is a regular thing for all of us. The last thing I see as my son’s bus leaves taking him to school in the morning is the “I love you” sign through his bus window and my “I love you” sign to him is the last thing he sees. My boys also tend to use the signs when they are scared or uncomfortable. For example, we all know that it can be hard to say sorry sometimes. Saying sorry seems to be made a little easier when you can sign it. When they have done something wrong, my boys will often start with a little “sorry” sign to open the communication. Also, all three of my kids know that Mommy is a sucker for the “please” sign, so in our house, in addition to the puppy dog eyes and the sweet buttery voices when the want something, they add in a little “please” sign to up their game. Even my husband and I use sign language with each other now, it has just become another part of how our family communicates, our magical language that lets us communicate, encourage and love even from across the room.

I feel so lucky that my husband and I decided to sign with our kids. We both have so many happy memories (and pictures and videos) of our journey. I feel so passionate about the magic of baby signing that I started my own company to teach other families to sign. If you are interested in learning more about baby sign language, check out my website: www.calgaryissigning.com or come and follow me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CalgaryIsSigning. If you love baby sign language as much as I do, I would love to hear about the magic and memories that you have experienced while signing with your little ones. If you haven’t tried it yet, give it a try, I promise you won’t regret it!

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Potty training before your baby can talk using sign language!

Banner 728x180When I went back to work in between having my two boys, we put my son in daycare at my office. I delayed my return from maternity leave a couple of months so he was almost 15 months old when he started. He went into the baby room with the 12 – 18 month old babies. At 14 months old he was doing the majority of his bowel movements in the potty and they were surprised and unequipped for a toilet training “baby”.  I ran out to the store and purchased a potty for his room at daycare and proceeded to teach his caregivers how he would sign “poop” to indicated his need to go potty.

The first few weeks were an adjustment as he learned to communicate with his caregivers and as they learned to “listen” to his signs, but once everyone adjusted they were amazed that he would indeed ask to go potty which meant they had one less dirty diaper to change at changing time.  He became a bit of a phenomenon at daycare and other parents and caregivers were always asking me how we did it. My answer was baby sign language and a consistent routine.

I put him on the potty for the first time when he was 8 months old. Not because I wanted to do some crazy early potty training but because he pooped at pretty much the same time every morning. Our morning routine involved him hanging out in the exersaucer in my bathroom while I got dressed and ready for the day. Every morning I would put him in a new diaper before putting him in the exersaucer because I didn’t want him sitting there in a wet diaper, and every morning he would poop in that nice clean diaper. My Mom and Grandma were in town visiting and I was complaining that he pooped every morning right after I put on a clean diaper and my Grandma suggested I put him on the potty instead of in the exersaucer. This hadn’t even occurred to me, but for my Grandma who raised four kids before disposable diapers became available it made perfect sense.  That afternoon, my Grandma went out and bought us our first potty, and sure enough, the next morning my son had his first poop in the potty at 8 months old!

We were happy with just catching his first poop of the day in the potty for awhile, but after we realized he was more comfortable on there we established a routine that allowed us to catch most of his poops and after that, the number of dirty diapers we had to change diminished quickly.  At the same time, we were teaching him baby sign language and on the day he turned 14 months old he “told” us he needed to go potty for the first time using his sign language. He wasn’t fully potty trained for several more months, but the decrease in dirty diapers in our house was an awesome accomplishment.

PT_DVD_coverart (1)When our second son was born we decided to try the same technique with him and we have been pleasantly surprised to have similar results. This time we were aided by a DVD from our favorite signing series (Signing Time!) that is called Potty Time, so in addition to using sign to tell us when he needs to go potty, our younger son reminds us to wipe, flush and wash with soap as well!  We managed to sing and sign our way through potty training.

I offer a workshop based on the Potty Time program where I teach the potty training signs and help prepare people for this important milestone. If you are interested in my classes or in purchasing the Potty Time DVD please visit my website at www.calgaryissigning.com.